B1 — MAXSUS DARS: Feelings & relationships — his-tuyg'u va munosabatlar

B1 — O'RTA · Maxsus dars (oraliq) · lug'at (hissiyot va munosabat)

1. Bu dars nima va nega muhim

Bu — lug'at va ifoda darsi: his-tuyg'ularni (xursand, asabiy, hayajonli, qo'rqqan…) va munosabatlarni (do'stlashmoq, sevib qolmoq, ajrashmoq…) aniq ifodalashni o'rganasiz. B1 darajada "I'm happy/sad" yetarli emas — nozik farqlarni (happy delighted thrilled) bilishingiz kerak.

I'm delighted to hear that! (Buni eshitganimdan juda xursandman!) She was annoyed with me. (U mendan g'ashlandi.) They get on really well. (Ular juda yaxshi chiqishadi.) He's a bit down today. (U bugun biroz tushkun.)

Real hayotda nega hal qiluvchi:

• His ifodalash (kundalik): o'z holatingizni aniq aytish — "I'm thrilled/exhausted/frustrated."
• Munosabatlar: odamlar haqida gapirish — "We get on", "They broke up."
• Empatiya: boshqalarning hissini tushunish va javob berish.

Asosiy tushuncha — his = "kuch darajasi" + aniqlik: ingliz tilida hissiyotning ko'p darajasi bor: happy < pleased < delighted < thrilled < over the moon. B1 da bu nozik farqlarni bilish — nutqni boy va aniq qiladi. Va -ed/-ing farqi (B1-31, A2-25): bored (men zerikdim) ≠ boring (zerikarli narsa).

2. Avvalgi darslardan takror (spiral)

• A2-25 (-ed/-ing sifatlar): bored/boring. Bugun — his sifatlarida.
• A2-31 (xarakter tasviri): kind, shy. Bugun — his + munosabat.
• B1-32 (phrasal verbs): get on, break up — munosabat phrasal verblari.
• B1-33 (sifat + predlog): afraid of, angry with — his + predlog.
• Tez mashq: kuchaytiring: happy ? (delighted), tired ? (exhausted), angry ? (furious).

3. Lug'at va ifoda — to'liq

3.1. Ijobiy his-tuyg'ular (kuch bo'yicha)

XURSAND:  happy  pleased  glad  delighted  thrilled  over the moon (juda xursand)
HAYAJON:  excited  thrilled  can't wait (intiqlik)
TINCH:  calm, relaxed, content, at ease, comfortable
MINNATDOR:  grateful, thankful, touched (ta'sirlangan)
FAXR:  proud (of)

I'm delighted with the results.       — Natijalardan juda mamnunman.
I'm so excited about the trip!         — Sayohatdan juda hayajondaman!
I'm really grateful for your help.     — Yordamingiz uchun juda minnatdorman.
I'm pleased to meet you.               — Siz bilan tanishganimdan xursandman.
I'm on top of the world today!         — Bugun dunyoning eng baxtli odamiman!

Nozik farq (ijobiy his): pleased — mamnun (xushmuomala, biroz rasmiyroq); glad — xursand (yengil, kundalik); delighted — juda xursand (kuchli, rasmiy xatda tabiiy: "I'd be delighted to..."); thrilled — hayajondan yayragan. Kuchayish tartibi: happy pleased/glad delighted thrilled over the moon. Rasmiy vaziyatda delighted, do'stona vaziyatda thrilled/over the moon tabiiyroq eshitiladi.

3.2. Salbiy his-tuyg'ular (kuch bo'yicha)

G'AMGIN:  sad  unhappy  upset  miserable  depressed  down (tushkun)
JAHL:  annoyed  irritated  angry  furious  cross (BrE — jahli chiqqan)
QO'RQUV:  nervous  anxious  worried  scared  terrified (dahshatga tushgan)
CHARCHOQ:  tired  exhausted  worn out  shattered (BrE)
UMIDSIZ:  disappointed, frustrated (g'azablangan-umidsiz), fed up (to'ygan)
UYAT/AYB:  embarrassed (uyalgan), ashamed (uyatli), guilty (aybdor)
HASAD:  jealous, envious

I'm a bit down today.                  — Bugun biroz tushkunman.
She was furious about the delay.        — U kechikishdan jahli chiqdi.
I'm frustrated with this software.      — Bu dasturdan g'azabdaman.
I'm fed up with waiting.                — Kutishdan to'ydim.
I was really upset about the news.      — Xabardan chindan ham xafa bo'ldim.
He looked miserable all day.            — U kun bo'yi tumshaygan ko'rindi.

B1-31 bog'lanish — kuchaytiruvchi + sifat: oddiy (gradable) sifatga very, kuchli (extreme) sifatga absolutely / really qo'shiladi. Kuchli sifat o'zi "juda"ni bildiradi, shuning uchun very qo'yilmaydi: I'm very tired. (oddiy) I'm absolutely exhausted. (kuchli). Xuddi shunday: very angry absolutely furious, very sad absolutely miserable, very scared absolutely terrified, very happy absolutely delighted. very exhausted, very furious — bu xato.

3.3. -ed vs -ing (his vs sabab) — juda muhim!

-ed = MEN qanday his qilaman:  I'm bored. I'm interested. I'm excited.
-ing = NARSA qanday:  It's boring. It's interesting. It's exciting.

I'm bored. (men zerikdim)  ≠  The film is boring. (film zerikarli)
I'm confused. (men chalkashdim)  ≠  The instructions are confusing.
I'm tired. (men charchadim)  ≠  The work is tiring.

Eng ko'p xato: "I'm boring" = "men zerikarli odamman" ( — agar zerikkaningizni aytmoqchi bo'lsangiz!) "I'm bored" (zerikdim). -ed = his (men); -ing = sabab (narsa).

Mini-mashq (-ed/-ing): to'g'ri shaklni tanlang. 1) The lesson was ___ (bored / boring). 2) I'm ___ (annoyed / annoying) with him. 3) The trip was ___ (excited / exciting). 4) She's ___ (interested / interesting) in art. 5) I was ___ (surprised / surprising). Javoblar: 1) boring 2) annoyed 3) exciting 4) interested 5) surprised. Sinash yo'li: his egasi ODAM bo'lsa -ed; his sababchisi NARSA/hodisa bo'lsa -ing.

3.4. Hisni ifodalash tuzilmalari

I feel + sifat:  I feel nervous.
I'm + sifat (+ about/with):  I'm worried about it. I'm angry with him.
It makes me + sifat:  It makes me happy/sad/angry. (B1-27)
I'm in a good/bad mood.  — Kayfiyatim yaxshi/yomon.
I'm not myself today.  — Bugun o'zimda emasman.
I'm stressed (out) about work.  — Ishdan stressga botganman.

I'm worried about the exam.        — Imtihondan xavotirdaman.
I'm excited about the weekend.      — Dam olish kunidan hayajondaman.
I'm nervous about the interview.    — Suhbatdan asabiyman.
I'm upset about what he said.       — U aytgan gapdan xafaman.

Sabab — "nima haqida" vs "kimga nisbatan": hodisa/narsa sabab bo'lsa, his + about: worried about, excited about, nervous about, upset about, stressed about. Aniq odamga qaratilgan his bo'lsa, ko'pincha + with: angry with, annoyed with, disappointed with, cross with. stressed out — "stressga botgan" (kundalik so'zlashuvda juda keng ishlatiladi); in a good/bad mood — "kayfiyati yaxshi/yomon".

3.5. Munosabatlar (relationships)

TANISHUV  DO'STLIK:  meet  get to know  become friends  get on (with) (chiqishmoq)
  close friend (yaqin do'st), best friend, acquaintance (tanish), colleague (hamkasb), mate (BrE — o'rtoq)
ISHQ:  fancy sb (yoqtirib qolmoq), ask sb out (uchrashuvga taklif), go out with (uchrashmoq),
  fall in love (with), be in a relationship, partner (juft)
NIKOH:  get engaged (unashtirilmoq), get married (to), husband/wife, couple
JANJAL/AJRALISH:  have a row/argument (janjallashmoq), fall out (with) (urishib qolmoq),
  break up (with) (ajrashmoq), split up, get divorced, make up (yarashmoq)

I get on really well with my colleagues.    — Hamkasblarim bilan juda yaxshi chiqishaman.
They've been going out for a year.           — Ular bir yildan beri uchrashyapti.
They got married last summer.                 — O'tgan yozi turmush qurishdi.
We had a row, but we made up.                 — Janjallashdik, lekin yarashdik.
They broke up last month.                      — O'tgan oy ajrashishdi.

Munosabat kollokatsiyalari (birga qotib qolgan iboralar):

make friends (do'st orttirmoq)         keep/stay in touch (aloqada bo'lib turmoq)
lose touch (aloqani yo'qotmoq)          have a lot in common (ko'p umumiyligi bor)
get to know sb (kimnidir tanib olmoq)   grow apart (bir-biridan uzoqlashmoq)

We made friends at university.               — Universitetda do'stlashib ketdik.
Let's keep in touch!                          — Aloqada bo'lib turaylik!
We lost touch after school.                   — Maktabdan keyin aloqani yo'qotdik.
We have a lot in common.                       — Bizda ko'p umumiylik bor.
It takes time to get to know someone.          — Odamni tanib olish vaqt talab qiladi.

Kollokatsiya diqqati: make friends — "do'st orttirmoq" (aynan make, do emas!); keep/stay in touch — "aloqada bo'lib turmoq"; lose touch — "aloqani uzmoq"; have a lot in common — "ko'p umumiyligi bor". Bu iboralarda fe'lni boshqasiga almashtirib bo'lmaydi — so'zlar birga yodlanadi.

Mini-mashq (munosabat): to'ldiring. 1) We ___ friends when we were kids. 2) Let's ___ in touch after the course. 3) They had a row and ___ out, but ___ up the next day. 4) I ___ on really well ___ my sister. Javoblar: 1) made 2) keep/stay 3) fell / made 4) get / with.

3.6. His idiomlari (chunks)

over the moon — juda xursand     |  down in the dumps — tushkun
on top of the world — eng baxtli  |  butterflies in my stomach — hayajondan
freaking out — vahimaga tushish   |  mixed feelings — qarama-qarshi his
get on someone's nerves — asabiga tegmoq  |  see eye to eye — kelishmoq
feel blue — g'amgin bo'lmoq       |  hit it off — birinchi ko'rishdayoq chiqishib ketmoq
a shoulder to cry on — dardlashadigan yaqin  |  have a soft spot for — mehri tushmoq

Idiom eslatmasi: idiomlar so'zma-so'z tarjima qilinmaydi. feel blue — "tushkun/g'amgin bo'lmoq" (blue = xafa rangi); hit it off (with sb) — tanishishi bilanoq chiqishib ketmoq; butterflies in my stomach — hayajondan qorinda "kapalak uchgandek" his (imtihon/uchrashuvdan oldin).

4. Misollar (his/munosabat bo'yicha)

ijobiy: I'm over the moon about the news! / I feel grateful every day.
salbiy: I'm absolutely furious. / He's been a bit down lately.
-ed/-ing: I'm fascinated. / It's fascinating. / I'm exhausted. / It's exhausting.
munosabat: We've grown apart. / They've fallen out. / I really fancy her.

5. Talaffuz bo'limi

delighted /dɪˈlaɪtɪd/ "dilaytid"   furious /ˈfjʊəriəs/ "fyuəriəs"
embarrassed /ɪmˈbærəst/ "imberəst"   anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/ "enkshəs"
exhausted /ɪɡˈzɔːstɪd/ "igzo:stid" (gz!)   jealous /ˈdʒeləs/ "jeləs"

Native siri: his sifatlari urg'u + ohang bilan kuchayadi: "I'm THRILLED!" (kuchli ijobiy). exhausted — "igzo:stid" (x = /gz/). anxious — "enkshəs". Ohang hisni ko'rsatadi.

Topshiriq (shadowing): "I'm delighted! I'm exhausted. I get on with them. They broke up." jumlalarini ovoz chiqarib ayting; hisni ohangda ko'rsating. Har bir his sifatini urg'u va his ohangi bilan takrorlang.

6. So'z boyligi (Anki)

Tayyor iboralar (chunks):

• I'm over the moon! — "Juda xursandman!"
• I'm a bit down. — "Biroz tushkunman."
• We get on really well. — "Juda yaxshi chiqishamiz."
• It's getting on my nerves. — "Asabimga tegyapti."
• I'm fed up with it. — "To'ydim bundan."
• Cheer up! — "Xafa bo'lma!"

7. To'liq o'qish matni va dialog (input)

Dialog — kayfiyat (feelings):

A: You look a bit down. Is everything OK? — Biroz tushkun ko'rinasan. Hammasi joyidami?
B: Honestly, I'm exhausted and a bit stressed. — Rostini aytsam, holdan toydim va biroz stressdaman.
A: I'm sorry to hear that. What's going on? — Eshitganimdan afsusdaman. Nima bo'lyapti?
B: Work has been crazy, and I had a row with my brother. — Ish jinnilik, va akam bilan janjallashdim.
A: Oh no. Are you two OK now? — Voy. Hozir ikkovingiz yaxshimisiz?
B: We made up, thankfully. But I'm still a bit upset about it. — Yarashdik, xayriyat. Lekin hali biroz xafaman.
A: That's understandable. You should take some time to relax. — Tushunarli. Dam olishga biroz vaqt ajratishing kerak.
B: You're right. Talking to you already makes me feel better. — Haqsan. Sen bilan gaplashish allaqachon o'zimni yaxshiroq his qildiryapti.
A: Anytime. Cheer up — things will get better. — Doim. Xafa bo'lma — hammasi yaxshi bo'ladi.

O'qish matni — "On feelings" (his haqida):

We often hide how we really feel, especially when we're struggling. — Biz ko'pincha haqiqatan qanday his qilayotganimizni yashiramiz, ayniqsa qiynalganda.
Saying "I'm fine" is easier than saying "I'm anxious" or "I feel lonely." — "Yaxshiman" deyish "xavotirdaman" yoki "yolg'izman" deyishdan osonroq.
But naming a feeling is the first step to understanding it. — Lekin hisni nomlash uni tushunishning birinchi qadami.
When I feel frustrated, I try to ask myself why. — Men g'azablanganimda, o'zimdan nega ekanini so'rashga harakat qilaman.
Sometimes I'm just tired; sometimes I'm disappointed in myself. — Ba'zan shunchaki charchaganman; ba'zan o'zimdan hafsalam pir bo'lgan.
The people we get on with best are often the ones we can be honest with. — Eng yaxshi chiqishadigan odamlarimiz — ko'pincha biz halol bo'la oladiganlarimiz.
So don't be afraid to say how you feel. It brings people closer. — Shuning uchun qanday his qilishingizni aytishdan qo'rqmang. Bu odamlarni yaqinlashtiradi.

Topshiriq: matnda his sifatlarini (anxious, frustrated, disappointed…) va munosabat iboralarini (get on with) belgilang. -ed/-ing farqini tekshiring. So'ng bugungi kayfiyatingiz va bir munosabatingiz haqida 6 gap yozing.

8. O'zbekcha-inglizcha tipik xatolar

• -ing his uchun (men ma'noda): I'm boring. I'm interesting. I'm exciting. (zerikdim ma'noda). I'm bored. I'm interested. I'm excited. (-ed = men; -ing = narsa). Eng ko'p xato!

• feel + ravish: I feel badly. I feel happily. I feel bad / happy. (feel + sifat, ravish emas).

• angry on / married with: angry on him / married with her. angry with him / married to her. (B1-33 — to'g'ri predlog).

• get on without with: I get on my colleagues. I get on with my colleagues. (get on with).

• I have nervous (have o'rniga be): I have nervous. I am nervous. (his be + sifat).

• yosh uchun have: I have 20 years. He has 25 years. (o'zbekcha "20 yoshdaman"ni to'g'ridan-to'g'ri tarjima qilish). I am 20 (years old). He is 25. (yosh be, have emas).

• feel noto'g'ri o'tgan zamon: I feeled sad. I feelt. I felt sad. (feel felt — noqoidali fe'l; "feeled" degan so'z yo'q).

• very + kuchli sifat: very exhausted, very furious, very terrified. absolutely exhausted / absolutely furious / absolutely terrified. (kuchli sifat bilan very emas, absolutely/really).

9. Mashqlar

Mashq 1. -ed yoki -ing?

1. The film was ___ (bored / boring).
2. I'm ___ (bored / boring).
3. The news is ___ (excited / exciting).
4. I'm ___ (interested / interesting) in this.

Mashq 2. Kuchaytiring (sinonim):

1. very happy  ___ (delighted/thrilled)
2. very tired  ___ (exhausted)
3. very angry  ___ (furious)
4. very scared  ___ (terrified)

Mashq 3. Munosabat phrasal verb:

1. They argued and ___ (urishib qolishdi). (fell out)
2. After a week, they ___ (yarashdi). (made up)
3. I ___ well ___ my boss. (chiqishaman) (get on with)

Mashq 4. Xatoni to'g'rilang: I'm boring. (zerikdim), I feel badly., angry on him, I get on my friends, I have nervous.

Mashq 5. O'zbekchadan inglizchaga:

1. Buni eshitganimdan juda xursandman. = ___
2. Bugun biroz tushkunman. = ___
3. Ular juda yaxshi chiqishadi. = ___
4. Kutishdan to'ydim. = ___
5. Film zerikarli edi. = ___

Mashq 6. To'g'ri kuchaytiruvchini tanlang (very yoki absolutely):

1. I'm ___ tired.       (oddiy sifat)
2. I'm ___ exhausted.   (kuchli sifat)
3. She was ___ furious.
4. He's ___ happy.

Mashq 7. Kollokatsiya — bo'sh joyni to'ldiring:

1. We ___ friends at work. (do'stlashdik)
2. Let's ___ in touch! (aloqada bo'lib turaylik)
3. We ___ touch after graduation. (aloqani yo'qotdik)
4. We ___ a lot ___ common. (ko'p umumiyligimiz bor)

10. Production drill + model javoblar

Drill A — hisingizni ayting:

"How do you feel about exams?"  "I feel ___ (nervous/anxious)."
"How was your day?"  "I'm a bit ___ (tired/stressed)."

Drill B — -ed/-ing:

"This book  ___ (interesting). I  ___ (interested)."

Drill C — munosabat haqida:

"I get on well with ___ ." "My best friend is ___ ." "I fell out with ___ once."

Model javoblar (Drill A): I feel nervous about exams. I'm a bit stressed today. So'ng o'z hissiyotingiz va munosabatingiz haqida 6 gap (turli his + munosabat) tuzib ayting va yozib qo'ying, keyin yuqoridagi model javoblar bilan solishtiring.

11. Javoblar kaliti

Mashq 1: 1. boring · 2. bored · 3. exciting · 4. interested. Mashq 2: 1. delighted/thrilled · 2. exhausted · 3. furious · 4. terrified. Mashq 3: 1. fell out · 2. made up · 3. get on ... with. Mashq 4: I'm bored. / I feel bad. / angry with him / I get on with my friends / I'm nervous. Mashq 5: 1. I'm delighted to hear that. · 2. I'm a bit down today. · 3. They get on really well. · 4. I'm fed up with waiting. · 5. The film was boring. Mashq 6: 1. very · 2. absolutely · 3. absolutely · 4. very (kuchli sifat absolutely; oddiy sifat very). Mashq 7: 1. made · 2. keep/stay · 3. lost · 4. have ... in.

12. Xulosa va keyingi dars

Tez ma'lumotnoma:

IJOBIY: happy  delighted  thrilled  over the moon | excited | grateful | proud
SALBIY: sad  upset  down  depressed | annoyed  furious | nervous  terrified |
  tired  exhausted | frustrated | embarrassed | jealous | fed up
-ed (MEN his): I'm bored/interested/excited | -ing (NARSA sabab): It's boring/interesting
MUNOSABAT: get on (with), fall in love (with), get married (to), have a row,
  fall out (with), break up (with), make up
 I'm bored (NOT "I'm boring"); feel + sifat; get on WITH; angry WITH

Asosiy nuqtalar:

1. His — kuch darajasi (happy delighted thrilled).
2. -ed (men his) vs -ing (narsa sabab) — eng ko'p xato!
3. get on with, break up with, make up — munosabat.
4. feel + sifat (ravish emas).
5. To'g'ri predlog (angry with, married to).

Bog'lanish: his va munosabat lug'ati — boy, ifodali nutqning asosi. Funksional bloklar tugadi. Keyingi MAXSUS darslar — yozish (email/esse) va texnik ingliz. So'ng B1 checkpoint.

Keyingi dars — B1 — MAXSUS dars: Email yozish (rasmiy/norasmiy). "Email qanday yoziladi — boshlanma, asosiy qism, yakun; rasmiy (Dear Sir) vs norasmiy (Hi Tom)" — yozma muloqotning asosi.

Manba

Cambridge English (B1 — vocabulary: feelings, relationships); Oxford 3000/5000 (feelings); Swan, "Practical English Usage" (-ed/-ing adjectives); British Council LearnEnglish — "Feelings", "Relationships vocabulary".